Good the bad and the UGLY 2 faced:)



Sometimes it takes something tragic to make everything work out.. I am actually feeling scared and blessed today I got up at 6 and feel like I actually rested. That is something most of you take for granted. Unless you suffer from insomnia like I do. I fell into a horrid trap of getting myself beyond messed up for years on ambient which is a sleep medication, one day I realized hey I am a low life druggie just like the ones my husband is always bitching about.  I cannot help but think maybe I deserve what is happening to me.   Trust me I have had many wake up calls thinking I had taken too many drugs and this is the finial call. Last month I tried to kill myself by taking over 30 pills and hoping I would not wake up because I was hurting deep inside I felt unwanted and unloved. I remember praying God please do not let me wake up.  I am still here then a couple weeks ago I got very bad news about my health now here I am saying God please let me live.  How does God distinguish between the two?  I am nothing just a shell of a person who has done nothing extraordinary. I make so many mistakes on a daily basis and sometimes say things that are so hurtful. I take god’s name in vein I cuss like a sailor so why should god help me? The answer is he shouldn’t but he loves me and he will. Just like how I love my own children. Some days they hurt my feelings, cuss, fight, or just ignore me as if I do not exist. Just like the way I hurt God sometimes. But I forgive them just as God forgives me. I am not perfect I am not a by the book Christian I may never be there. I am getting everything I ever wanted in this moment my husband is working his ass off every day to provide for us. Then he comes here and takes care of me, helps with supper, even cleans the house and I don’t always thank him. He teaches me about God and sometimes puts me in check (which I hate) I look up to him admire him and I love him. He is the one person I worry about when I do things I should not do. It hurts me to the core when I think I let him down or if I know I have hurt him in any way. We have had a lot of trouble in our marriage but he has stuck by me at my worst and been there thru the best.  If there was one single thing I could do or say to let him know how much I love and respect him I would say it but I can’t. All I can do is say I love you Rocky with all my heart.  Another person I look up to is my mommy and my sisters, Or relationship is back on track and this year I get to go see them all I am so excited to go I cannot wait. Now on to my kids I love them unconditionally My Stacy is pretty much the perfect mom to her son Jordan (a bit overprotective) and that makes her perfect.  I even love my son in law even if I want to choke him. Kristen is giving me a new grand baby and has stepped up to give me advice and encouragement. She is going to be a great mommy also. She is planning her future and has set goals. I am so very proud although I hardly ever say is. MY little Cindy she has helped around the house taken care of me, sat with me when I felt I had nothing and no one. Cindy keeps a lot inside and hardly ever complains she is going to be a strong person like Rocky is. Looking at these three I can’t help think Rocky and I aren’t the best parents but we sure did something right.
His family and I still are not on track just yet. I hear how they talk about me and how I am made fun of for being fat, or being a bitch. Or even how I am a horrible mom or how I treat rocky bad. Well I also know I should not give a rats ass about how this bunch treats me because lord knows they screw up too. They get drunk around their kids, cuss, set bad examples, let trashy druggies around their children, and gossip and cause drama. I have no need to mention which ones do what.  I know not many of them care for me but I still love them yes despite how I am treated I love them. I hope someday they can act right and quit tearing others up and realize what they run and tell it destroys people.
I love you all . If I made anyone mad well I do not care J
Last blog some stupid idiot from Flatgap/redbush ran and told my uncle a bunch of stuff that I had said about him. They also lead him to believe I said stuff on topix about him which I did not I do not post on that trashy site and do not read it unlike you do.  I know exactly who said it to him to and let me tell you something I may be nice to you when you are at my uncles house pretending to be his friend and we all know you just use him to get what you want. You my dear are NO friend at all. You are trash and always will be. You like to lie and cause drama. Let this be your warning cause trouble in my family again you will know just how much I cannot stand you, you will deal with me on a personal level and it won’t be so good for you. Even his wife can see thru you and just how you are. The only one clueless is my uncle.  Now I won’t run and tell your “secrets” and yes I know them so does everyone else.  I will say this one last time do not DO NOT FUCK WITH MY FAMILY. I can and will destroy you one way or another and I will make shit crumble around you. I have lots of proof of shit I can use against you so the best you can do is put on your big girl panties and apologize for lying on me and causing me hurt and causing my uncle to hurt. I will be the bigger person and let it go after that. Until then do not speak to me when you see me cause you are nothing but a two faced liar.

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